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Productivity

In my mind I was soooo gung-ho on getting all this stuff done before Callahan comes home. But my body didn’t agree. I got sick. I’m actually not surprised because after I finish any intense projects, my body seems to know when I’m done, and just completely shuts down. Today though … it was bad. Probably the worst I’ve been in a while because I woke up with a raging headache. Like I’m pretty sure I’d call it a migraine, but since I also think I was going thru major caffeine withdrawls, I’m kind of on the fence. Regardless, it was a ROUGH day. I’m so thankful to my neighbor and my parents who helped me out while Bob was working. Seriously – I was down for the count.

But these crazy kiddos of mine didn’t seem to mind. I will say, there is nothing SWEETER than hearing your 5 year old daughter praying in the kitchen to God that He will make her Momma feel better. And then to top it off, said daughter comes into the living room where you’re sprawled on the couch and starts rubbing your foot with the hopes that it’ll help. I LOVE that girl! Somebody take her Target!

But in a way she kind of owes me since her and the boy destroyed the kitchen and dumped a ton of pre-cut fabric I had in a bin on the floor. But hey. We all survived, right?

So now that my brain is starting to work again, I’m back to making mental lists of everything I need to accomplish. I want to reorganize a ton of different spaces, and the crazy thing, is that I actually think I’ll get everything done. I’m not expecting a travel call in the next few days … heck not in the next week! So I’m thinking there’s still some decent time left. One of the things I’m going to do is have a ‘One Day Sale’ in my ‘Shop’ on May 11th. I’m sure I’ll post another ‘shout out’ on the ol’ blog, but the reason for this sale is so I can raise some $$$ for donations to bring to our Agency. I know a lot of people bring rice cereal and puffs and things of that nature, so I’m hoping to be able to bring some of the other things that are needed … maternity clothes, medications, toddler clothes – stuff like that. If anyone is interested in sending donations for me to take – just let me know! I can give you more information on what is needed.

Tomorrow Bob has to work again (it’s his weekend on) and I have to say, I’m a bit nervous to see what the morning brings. I’m SOOO hoping that I don’t wake up with another headache, but you never know. But what I DO know, is every day I wake up,  it brings me one day closer to this guy!

Leah - May 6, 2012 - 8:13 am

Would love to donate! Keep us posted and I’ll be on the look out! Seriously! Can’t wait to follow along! :)

Yawn … Stretch … Let’s Back on this thing!

Okay. So I took a break. Lots has been going on these past few months and I won’t bore you with the details as it wasn’t all that exciting, but life is starting to calm down … or is it? This morning I woke up to super fabulous news – our ‘EP’ was approved! I know, no-one knew we were submitted.

But now that we’re in the homestretch, I’m getting more excited. Its feels way more real, and now I can actually get the kids pumped up. We used to talk about Callahan a lot but then Claire didn’t understand why he wasn’t coming home. Or why he wasn’t meeting us for dinner, or coming back to our house. I made the decision to stop talking about him. On occasion I’d show the kids Cal’s picture and ask them who it was – and they would answer with the correct response, and then we’d move on. It was too much for their brains to comprehend, so I just backed off. But now? Oh no, GAME ON! We are about to get all ‘Callahan’d'  up in here!

So back to blogging I am. And I’m actually really looking forward to it. It gives me something to do and I get to ‘document’ our life in the process. It’s a win/win in my book … unless you find me completely boring. Which I wouldn’t blame you if you did … but the cool thing is that I’ll never know (unless you leave me a comment saying so … but please don’t leave me a comment saying so … ).

Jill - May 2, 2012 - 9:45 pm

I am so super excited for you and your family, Rachel! Callahan is SOOO cute! I can’t wait to meet him! So happy you received EP. It won’t be long now! WOOO HOOOO!!! Looking forward to following your journey to bringing hime home.

innotof - May 2, 2012 - 11:22 pm

Oh my cuteness!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ve been wondering how the journey was going. SO super excited for you AND glad to see you’re blogging again!!! Good news all around!:)

Tina - May 3, 2012 - 8:35 am

So excited for you! Hope you get the green light to travel soon. Three little ones! Congrats.

Leah Lemmons - May 3, 2012 - 9:06 am

I’m sooooo super excited about Callahan joining your cutsie family!! Can’t wait to follow along, again! And I’m super excited to see you blogging again! Seriously, there’s not that much to read out there these days! Thanks for giving me something else to enjoy again! Glad you’ve come up for air, missed you girl! :)

Cindy - May 3, 2012 - 7:38 pm

Wow! He is just a doll! Love the name too! I knew you had a referral but so excited to finally see his picture and hear of the EP!!!!! I loved following your journey last time and I look forward to reading and following again. Enjoy your humor and outlook on life. Congrats! Yay! Makes me want to go back thinking about it all.

ummm … hello?

Wow. Where have I been? I can’t believe how much time has actually passed! Anyway, I can’t really remember all that has happened, so I thought I’d just post some photos from my Instagram stream.

Daikon Kimchi – my favorite

Charlie got a ‘free gift’ from the restaurant

I wore some fancy earrings

{the most dressed up I’ve been in a long time}

Vending Machine Mustaches

the Boy looking quite dapper if you ask me

he’s not smoking – but he did pick out his shoes

lookin’ like twinos with his Dad

both of them love sunglasses

{ for reals }

So that’s just a little glimpse into what we’ve been up to lately. Nothing too exciting. But I will say, I’m incredibly in love with Instagram. Are you using it as well? Let me know your user name so I can follow along – I LOVE looking at everyone’s photos! I’m under ‘BecomingAjumma’, so maybe I’ll see you around?

Leah Lemmons - February 10, 2012 - 5:26 am

LOVE.THE.SUNGLASSES.PHOTO!!! Oh my goodness!! Actually, love them all, Charlie is so Ohmygosh cute in all his cuteness, Clair too of course! They’re getting so big!

hannah - April 10, 2012 - 8:50 am

your son is so cute and the title of your blog is amazing!

young love

So I had the pleasure of taking Engagement photos for a friend. Okay, so basically I begged her to let me take them. But she said YES, so that’s all that matters! Here’s a little glimpse of some of the shots I got (oh … and it doesn’t hurt that they are incredibly beautiful).

So this session went a TON smoother than my other ones, but there is STILL a lot for me to learn. The big thing I have learn is the placement of hands. It’s kind of hard to remember, but when you look at photos afterwards, it becomes really obvious. HA!

Oh – and here’s another idea for you guys! I started a ‘private group’ on FB for people who are just wanting to get better at Photography (like me). Since it’s a private group, the only way you can access it,  is if I add you – or another Member adds you. My thought is that we’ll have our own little community where we can ask the stupidest of questions (believe me, I have a TON) and get feedback on our pictures. I’ll also have weekly ‘assignments’ – purely for the accountability of getting out there and practicing.

My hope is that we can all learn together and share what little (or lot) of knowledge we have. I honestly don’t mind if it’s just me and two of my friends, or if we have twenty. If you’re friends with me on FB, message me and I’ll add you. Actually, if I’m not friends with you on FB you can still message me and I’ll add you – or you can go to the BecomingAjumma FB page via the link on the right and ask for an add there. And if you’re not on FB at all, you can leave your FB name in the comments below or send me a message via the contact link above.

I’ll be honest – I hope some you guys want to join. I think it would make it SO much more fun to have others to discuss stuff with. But if not, I always have my husband as my sounding board (which I’m sure he just loves … um … yeah …).

Christie Hughes - December 24, 2011 - 8:06 am

Hey, can I be in the cool kids group on FB???? I really am interested in learning more about photography and am working on getting a better camera. Looking at a Nikon right now that my friend wants to sell. Not sure on the model, but she said she got it for Christmas last year and has only used it a couple of times.

BTW – those pictures are AWESOME!!! I wish we lived near eachother so you could take our pictures and make us look pretty! :)

i guess it’s time

 

Tonight I plucked out 6 grey hairs from my head in the span of about 5 minutes. Devastation. For reals.

I had tried to make a pact with myself to stop plucking my greys. I think I held out for about 2-3 weeks before the plucking started up again. I would continue, but I’m actually afraid that I’ll lose too much hair. Because is it just me, or does your hair get thinner as you get older? And let me tell you – even a SINGLE strand of grey hair REALLY shows up on black hair. It’s kind of making me go crazy … as I’m constantly on the ‘search’ for new ones.

And it also reminds me of my Mom when she started going grey … or more noticeably grey. She was a natural blonde (remember – I’m adopted) and when the greys started coming in, she swore that her hair was getting blonder. We told her it was grey, but she was pretty convinced it was blonde. It was one of those things we would kind of chuckle to ourselves about and just ‘let Mom believe what she wants’ … but now I’m realizing how she felt. I keep thinking that I have really shiny hair. But those ‘shines’ are actually grey hairs … no reflection of light … just stark white hair against the jet black ones.

Anyway, I guess its time to start coloring my hair again. I first started coloring my hair when I was around 19. I did it so much, that I actually kind of forgot what my natural hair color was. I thought it was dark brown. But it’s not. It’s actually black.

So for a few years now, I’ve been back to my ‘virgin’ hair color. I find it somewhat amusing that I used to color my hair all the time when I didn’t ‘have’ to, but now that I kinda ‘need’ to, I’m feeling a bit resistant. So before I make an appointment to get it done, does anyone have any suggestions for me?

Leah Lemmons - December 20, 2011 - 5:20 am

I refused to color my hair up until a few years ago. I didn’t have grey hair until after I got married. Then I got even more greys when I had my daughter 11 years ago. Now, I’m a full blown colorer, as of 3 years ago! So…. are you wanting to go lighter, same color, just coloring to cover greys? What is it you want done? I wanted all of that! lol If you color, show us your due! ;)

Ramsey - December 20, 2011 - 6:53 pm

I’m jealous of your black hair!! I always think people with black hair have it easier when it comes to covering gray. I am starting to have some gray hairs, but my light/medium brown hair makes it hard to cover!! Argh.

Liz K. - December 22, 2011 - 9:55 am

Before you head to the salon, I suggest you get John Frieda’s foam color. It’s the best! Covers greys nicely and the color pretty matches my hair (I’m a dark brown and used light medium brown). I colored my hair earlier this month and it still looks good. People with darker hair color tend to have a more difficult time covering their grey than those with lighter hair colors. Good luck!!

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